Within the Latter Day Saint movement, there are a number of theologies regarding the nature of God. In the Fellowship, and within Mormon Kabbalah, we accept all of them. It’s about how God reveals Himself, or Themselves, to us as individuals. We build, as it were, our own religions.
Spiritual experiences are never easy to describe, and apparitions even more difficult. This is because when spirit entities go through a process called condescension, they have to reduce themselves to the level at which humans can relate, and so much of that information gets lost in translation.